tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5778330150286788997.post782782767163046336..comments2024-01-01T06:44:24.089-06:00Comments on Some Mothers Do Ave Em: And....BreatheNicolahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07017352687163694581noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5778330150286788997.post-26772436810201433662010-01-29T13:18:07.870-06:002010-01-29T13:18:07.870-06:00Good Luck with such a big life change, and well do...Good Luck with such a big life change, and well done for focusing on your happiness xLOVEMYBABYhttp://lovemybabyuk.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5778330150286788997.post-48131519048723023412010-01-22T12:56:45.980-06:002010-01-22T12:56:45.980-06:00Yay! Except I want you to stay here but never mind...Yay! Except I want you to stay here but never mind. It's not about ME.Expat mumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17798190669591053390noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5778330150286788997.post-60931558745869095632010-01-21T08:43:20.976-06:002010-01-21T08:43:20.976-06:00Easily found it - stick it in your next post!
http...Easily found it - stick it in your next post!<br />http://www.ted.com/talks/lang/eng/jill_bolte_taylor_s_powerful_stroke_of_insight.htmlKabbalah Rookiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12737692859267786264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5778330150286788997.post-46405023439136930482010-01-21T08:41:39.619-06:002010-01-21T08:41:39.619-06:00So maybe now is the time for me to comment and say...So maybe now is the time for me to comment and say that I have found someone to live with and will be moving in the next 5 weeks? Amazing how it all comes together when you start taking action. I will see you in North London, in the summer, feeling a remarkable sense of wonder at how this has all fallen in to place. <br />And in the meantime, you really don't need any more boots. Oh, and my ears are tireless for when you hit the bumps.<br />Love you heaps and masses, and love the blog post. Now I'm off to find Jill somebody on TED.<br />x x x x xKabbalah Rookiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12737692859267786264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5778330150286788997.post-86196859075594895172010-01-20T17:05:03.198-06:002010-01-20T17:05:03.198-06:00Really glad to hear you've made a decision - a...Really glad to hear you've made a decision - and sounds like a good one. Take the bull by the horns (as it were..!)nappy valley girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10788949037047084412noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5778330150286788997.post-77704653991792051482010-01-20T16:27:06.762-06:002010-01-20T16:27:06.762-06:00Oh honey...It's so much to handle sometimes. I...Oh honey...It's so much to handle sometimes. I can't imagine the pain of going through it while still actually loving one's ex, so my heart just hurts for you. I'm glad that you're redirecting your energies and thoughts, though. I think that's the healthiest thing you could do right now. And that way lies peace. And eventually? Love.Teacher Mommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11215145025563985398noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5778330150286788997.post-49288351656947877122010-01-20T15:34:00.908-06:002010-01-20T15:34:00.908-06:00Blinkin 'eck, that's a lot to take in! Bu...Blinkin 'eck, that's a lot to take in! But wow, you're making a change for the better - and hey, you can never have too many pairs of boots. Fantastic.Jeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00124374747737466986noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5778330150286788997.post-77372398487054654102010-01-20T14:39:38.023-06:002010-01-20T14:39:38.023-06:00Making that decision must have been such a relief....Making that decision must have been such a relief. I did exactly the same thing after my divorce and it was, without a doubt, the best decision I have ever made. I found a new life, then when I had that sorted, a new man. Stick to your guns and do what's best for you. Your kids will be happy if their mum is happy. <br />PS I love your blog!Footballers Kneeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02724482190095647499noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5778330150286788997.post-8068657024588605892010-01-20T14:29:24.256-06:002010-01-20T14:29:24.256-06:00Oh, jeez, what a time of it you are having. I hat...Oh, jeez, what a time of it you are having. I hate that biting back thing where you have to pretend you are fine and happy and the worse feeling when they believe it all and you are watching them relieved they have gotten away without a scene ect whilst inside you are dying. thank god you have this place to vent. Am sure my head would explode if it were me.Not From Laplandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17165208811776097332noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5778330150286788997.post-18207351150095886852010-01-20T14:15:04.664-06:002010-01-20T14:15:04.664-06:00I think having a plan makes life so much easier, i...I think having a plan makes life so much easier, it gives you something to work to and focus on. I think you are right concetrating on you and the boysJen Walshawhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07374363403295342745noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5778330150286788997.post-51248255263139869622010-01-20T14:10:08.572-06:002010-01-20T14:10:08.572-06:00Very bored in Catalunya - hmmm, dignified on the o...Very bored in Catalunya - hmmm, dignified on the outside while screaming like a banshee within! It's hard not to be aware of the pain and suffering families are experiencing in Haiti to put a lot of what I am going through in to perspective. Makes me a little ashamed to be so self-involved. So I am going to try to keep dealing with this with grace and dignity and not blow the whole thing out of proportion, irrespective of how momentous it feels at times. The other thing that is keeping me grounded is by prompting myself to think: what does this mean to the boys? is she a good thing or a bad thing? if they are happy spending time with her then that's all I should care about and my own pride should not really come into question. Or at least if it does, I should at least have the maturity to recognise it as such.Nicolahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07017352687163694581noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5778330150286788997.post-38992059606824406012010-01-20T14:04:17.028-06:002010-01-20T14:04:17.028-06:00mwa - I am simultaneously energised and exhausted....mwa - I am simultaneously energised and exhausted. It's a lot to take in. I am not a patient person and I have been patient for a long time so to finally be able to take action is daunting but I know it is the right thing to do.<br /><br />Fraught Mummy - Me too. I'll no doubt keep everyone posted ;)) Thanks for the hugs x<br /><br />Potty Mummy - Well, he acknowledged receipt of the email and merely said it was a lot to take in and he didn't understand all of it (even given my eloquence? not possible surely?). We are going to talk about it when he returns from the UK next week. It will be a massive relief if he doesn't contest my wishes to move home. We'll see. Will require him relinquishing a huge amount of control and being completely unselfish. Not sure if he is capable of that without a battle.Nicolahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07017352687163694581noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5778330150286788997.post-58378867537402747782010-01-20T14:04:05.003-06:002010-01-20T14:04:05.003-06:00Well done you, you sound like you've behaved w...Well done you, you sound like you've behaved with the utmost dignity. You'll soon forget all about this week and be caught up in your new moving plans, plus you got some fab new boots as well.Very Bored in Catalunyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07695203425270299420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5778330150286788997.post-27085277982024856822010-01-20T13:44:20.595-06:002010-01-20T13:44:20.595-06:00Wow. Good for you. And have you heard back from h...Wow. Good for you. And have you heard back from him?Potty Mummyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04751869800592294891noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5778330150286788997.post-59589457432257341852010-01-20T13:38:41.928-06:002010-01-20T13:38:41.928-06:00This breathing thing is doing you a lot of good. Y...This breathing thing is doing you a lot of good. You are definitely most grown up in your approaches. I hope that ex is considerate to you with your plans to move back. Big hugs xxxDorset Dispatcheshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10457466586411004146noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5778330150286788997.post-737514366570483992010-01-20T13:08:39.668-06:002010-01-20T13:08:39.668-06:00I think my head would explode if I had that much t...I think my head would explode if I had that much to deal with in a year, let alone a few days.Mwahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00954216492730746581noreply@blogger.com